At my previous job, I was often criticised for pointing out the obvious weaknesses and failure points of new ideas. I always made sure to remind the project’s owner when it inevitably failed, and that they shouldn’t have ignored the doomsayer in the room. The best part is that they couldn’t fire me because I was a competent worker during a shortage caused by the pandemic.
Now that we have a club confirmed, we should have club meetings! Though I see how that may not work out…
Yeah, that was me. I always had to get my warnings in writing so they couldn’t blame me when their idea failed
Good on you for standing by the truth and genuinely looking out for your workplace and co-workers! Being the one to point out uncomfortable truths isn’t easy, but it’s crucial for a healthy work environment. When people like you leave, it often leads to a wider exodus of staff, significant loss of experience and knowledge—and the business feels the impact. Keep being that voice of reason!
That’s nice, but also inaccurate in my case. I was at a point where I didn’t give a rat’s ass about my employment there. The most experienced veterans had quit because they weren’t getting a fair salary, and new personnel (hired at a starting salary of 1.5 times that of the veterans) were absolute morons that I and others had to train. Management was also doubled in size in my final year, but at the cost of moving even more people (the experienced ones) away from the production floor. The place was in a nosedive and I was ready to jump out and watch the flames from a distance.
So no, I wasn’t the voice of reason, I was the voice of not giving a fuck.
Yeah, it’s a mental condition called being a programmer.
Oh no, is there any hope for treatment?
Use other people’s code: https://github.com/josephmbasile/FOIAs
Damn, this might actually come in handy. Thanks!
does it affect no-code devs ?
Me, thinking to myself: what if this completely illogical and unlikely thing happened RIGHT NOW
Also me, to my wife: why would you think that completely illogical and unlikely thing would happen right now…
I wish my brain just went one scenario.
While not a quick and easy process, programming can be alterred. DBT helps.
Yuuup, this person is doing the classic cognitive distortion called catastrophizing. It’s very worth it to work on overcoming any cognitive distortions you have
Drugs help too.
That’s incredibly dismissive. If the worst case scenario is reasonable then preparing for it isn’t catastrophizing. Your assuming OP goes to illogical extremes.
DBT?
only know DMT, is DBT something I miss out on?Dialectical Behavior Therapy
This doesn’t have enough upvotes imo. Contingency hell can be dealt with. (mind you, noting wrong with having a contingency plan or two, but there’s a point where it goes from a healthy survival mechanism to a debilitating maladaptive coping mechanism)
I’m still in contingency plan hell, but I’ve managed to deal with it in some parts of my life and that feeling of just coming out of a situation that used to make you tense AF and then realizing you were not even considering to worry about it is the best feeling even. This was something I never expected to be possible.
And honestly, I have been stressing out about the other bits of my life that are still contingency hell, kinda thinking I might never get rid of them, just how I felt about the things I actually did deal with…
Guess I came here to remind some internet rando’s that it is in fact possible; ended up reminding myself :')
The one thing my therapists never understood was just how much more draining it was to have to put those contingency plans into action every day and then getting blamed for that too, so it’s literally just worst case scenario every day all the way down.
So there I am in the catastrophic mode of thinking, actually feeling secure for once. And now I’m supposed to turn into an optimist? I tried. I tried because it was what I was supposed to do. And wouldn’t you know it? It all blew up again.
So yeah I guess the message here is if a therapist is reading this, ask yourself what’s worse? The bad thing happening with no plan, or the bad thing with a plan? Because the good thing isn’t a choice. It never was in my life. It was always an illusion that gets ripped away the second you depend on it.
This is both a blessing and a curse. For my line of work, IT, I’m often thinking of the possible failure scenarios because I’ll have to deal with them if they happen. I want to make it easy on myself if the worst happens.
At the same time, having my manager saying “we need to chat” will have me basically getting fired 1000 different ways in my head before we walk the 18 steps to his office.
I mean, Trump won so… that illustrates how sometimes things do happen, and it’s often best to be prepared for such?
It feels pretty good to be the one person prepared when shit does go down though. So there’s that at least…
If everything’s okay then I’ve forgotten something.
I do that, and it’s not just mental. It affects what I have access to doing even when I actually have access because I can’t trust it.
Even mourning people and situations before they are gone.
I too am a fan of the Chicago Bears.
Caveman thoughts
Literally the story of Inside Out 2
