• webghost0101@sopuli.xyz
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    7 个月前

    Reminder that your mood, health and the orientation of the planets can cause you to be one or the other any given time.

  • HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social
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    7 个月前

    Absolutely “fuck it LMAO” type. I don’t have the energy to do anxious, if I try something snaps, usually sooner than later, and takes out a bunch of things like a broken chain. My life is kind of a disaster.

    • ickplant@lemmy.worldOPM
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      7 个月前

      Same, it’s like a tightly wound string around here. Pull too hard, and it all breaks loose. But it keeps up appearances.

  • VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
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    7 个月前

    I’m chaotic anxious. I don’t have the energy or the resolve to be fully the second type but I have the energy to be anxious about not being better.

    • Milksteaks [he/him]@midwest.social
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      7 个月前

      I love how the top comments are complete opposite for the same reasons, lack of energy. Personally I’m so goddamned anxious changing the conversations 10 times a minute to try and distract people from how anxious I am. Also stroking my beard constantly, chewing nails to nubs and pacing around constantly

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        7 个月前

        Omg I twril my mustache like I’m Snively Whiplash all the time for the same reason as well as stroking my beard.

  • pHr34kY@lemmy.world
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    7 个月前

    I start the day as the latter, and turn into the former as I run out of energy and the mask comes off.

  • RGB3x3@lemmy.world
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    7 个月前

    I’m the type that sits quietly doing everything except the thing I should be doing, feeling anxious about that thing, and staying so quiet that people even forget I’m there.

  • ShaunaTheDead@kbin.social
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    My partner and I are both of those. She’s the anxious one and I’m the “fuck it” one. It works out alright, she can get more done, and I can calm her down when it’s not actually as important as she thinks it is.

  • Meeech@lemmy.world
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    7 个月前

    My wife is the first time and I’m the second type. By our powers combined, we’re barely functional!

  • Ilflish@lemm.ee
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    7 个月前

    People constantly telling me i was so relaxed growing up. No shit, I avoid stressers like the plague, to the point my brain threw out my emotions in high school. Everything only started resurfacing when I became an adult and I couldn’t avoid stressful stuff like being healthy and having to work and clean up after myself

  • OleoSaccharum@lemm.ee
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    7 个月前

    Reading the Getting Things Done Method edition 2 I noticed the author seemed to have established excellent strategies for coping with both ADHD and mild megalomania brought on through a successful self-help writing career