Man, I don’t let people take pictures of me. Not even nudes, none. I haven’t allowed anyone except my wife and the DMV to take any pics of even my face in fifteen years, and the exception was our wedding.

I’m weird, I know. Tough shit lol.

Now, I have used a camera in “bed”, but not recording. More like a mirror kind of thing, at an ex’s request. But that’s not the same as filming, imo.

As far as tying someone up, I’m actually pretty vanilla in my preferences. I don’t have any real kinks. But I’m kink friendly. I’ll play along with most things to some degree, and that includes bondage. I actually really dig bondage photography, though not on a sexual level. I just enjoy the way it ends up framing the human form in a way you can’t get without it. It’s visually compelling.

I dated this one lady, back around 2002 ish that liked being tied up, and liked being filmed or photographed. So, sometimes we’d do that, just with the understanding that I don’t do pictures of myself.

I’m maybe not the perfect person to answer this but still!

Filmed in bed: absolutely. Suggest it to a girl: have done and would do again! Tied up: I might ask for ME to be tied up instead but I’m thrilled either way :3 General vibe: talk about it beforehand and make sure you know whether either/both parties actually want to post it anywhere/send it to anyone, or if it’s just something you’re doing for fun.

I love it. Besides, I’m doing the world a favor by letting them see my awesome shape.

I have, I have little issue with it. Same with the rope. As long as everything is negotiated beforehand, I am more than happy to

No, I don’t like being filmed and it will give me anxiety.

Yeah we do it all the time. We’ve used cuffs not rope but no reason we wouldn’t other than we don’t have any rope handy.

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