No judgement here please! Everyone should be free to speak their truth.
r/sounding
There’s no equivalent community on lemmy yet unfortunately.
You can create one yourself. I helped mod r/Femdom_sounding for a few years.
Ohh I had to Google it and while I am not here to kink shame, the thought of sticking things in my urethra makes me so damn uncomfortable ahhhh
I get it seems extreme to people who haven’t tried it, but it’s really not and I recommend at least trying it. Read up how to do it safely (VERY CLEAN and VERY LUBED) and start small and work your way up. It’s honestly the best sensation I’ve ever felt. It’s thrilling and gives the best most explosive orgasms of my life. Amazing feeling. 10/10
Sissy stuff. Taking dildos/prostate toys in my butt, sucking off dildos, wearing panties and ultra fem dresses, humiliation (I like the fantasy of a dominatrix “exposing” me to her friends and all of them joining together to verbally and physically humiliate/degrade me), etc. I’m also into puppy play which a lot of people seem to confuse with being a furry but they’re not the same (they probably do overlap a lot though).
I’m not necessarily a tough guy in the outside world but am generally considered to be fairly manly in my day job and my life in general. Basically not like a construction worker or anything but more like a head general contractor or project manager on a construction site. This type of fantasy play I guess is a bit of an escape from my daily reality.
Fake cum. I know most people don’t like it, and it’s not the fake cum itself that I like, but mostly it’s the sticky “shlick shlick” sounds I love when it’s being played with.
Normal porn is usually cumshot, zoom in, smile, roll credits. Meh.
I want to get used by a large dicked trans, males just don’t do it for me, but I want to know what it’s like to taken by a domineering woman. This is a new thing for me, since Quitting Hard drugs in the 2000s I haven’t had any sexual urges until I started taking prescribed meds (not sure which one is causing this) but now I’m a massive sub and I have no idea where that comes from. My wife has told me multiple times through the years that she will never top or go near anal plus she’s also super submissive.
Butt stuff, those harness style underwear and harnesses in general, chokers. (Nothing too bdsm-y, just the style is sexy) That heavy egirl makeup with the winged eyeliner. Filming and taking private pictures.suoer sloppy blowjobs. Fishnets. thigh high socks with the stripes.
We rarely do anything but my wife likes lace underwear as her limit, and hand stuff. Sometimes PiV.
She gives me a lot of shit and judges me for asking for these things, but on the grand scheme of things I feel like I’m not that crazy.