I have a long distance friend and I’ll admit we get super super flirty sometimes because of how lonely we both are.
So both of us haven’t been laid in months. 8+ for both of us.
Both of us started getting turned on the phone the other day, one thing led to another and she and I had some consexual “mutual masturbation” over the phone. Phone sex simply (cringe I know, but that itch was there)
After we had both finished I just felt sort of ashamed and gross for about an hour.
Is this normal? I’m still very inexperienced with sexuality in general because in such a shy shy guy.
Is this this what they mean when they say post nut clarity or whatever?
Awesome reply man. No immaturity at all.
Yeah I notice a lot of people are just able to lay in bed and cuddle and laugh about it immediately afterwards, while people like myself will sort of feel gross and shameful for a little bit immediately after any sexual acts. Thanks for not laughing at the cringe its a long distance friendship and it had been a long time since either of us were intimate with anyone.
I was even looking at her kind of like… “gross did I just do this perverted stuff over the phone with her”…
Of course now, later, 'im thinking it was fun and I enjoyed it.
Yes I think it probably is societal condition and the way I was raised