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  • khannie@lemmy.world
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    27 days ago

    Not a woman so not sure if I should be posting but just wanted to say you sound like a great human from that. Full of kindness and empathy which is the best measuring stick IMO.

    • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOPM
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      27 days ago

      Khannie that’s such a nice thing to say thanks so much! We are women only though so please don’t comment again 😊

      • peaches@lemm.ee
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        26 days ago

        Oh, I did not know we are women only. And how would we know the gender of the poster?

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          26 days ago

          That’s always the tricky bit, but often comments give it away. Tbh 95% of the men who’ve commented have been fantastically supportive

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            24 days ago

            So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced.

            • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOPM
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              24 days ago

              I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We’ll have some problems and it’ll be harder to moderate the group.