I have a I have a couple questions here about your clitorii (clitorises?), and female orgasms. I hope this is the right spot to ask these questions?

Clitorises:

  1. How sensitive is you clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
  2. Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
  3. How big would you say your clitoris is?
  4. In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
  5. When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
  6. When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
  7. After your are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
  8. Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
  9. Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?

As for orgasms:

  1. What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
  2. Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
  3. Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
  4. Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
  5. Is there a point where you have to “recharge” like men before you can have the next orgasm?
  6. Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
  7. How have your orgasms changed with age (or if you are trans, how have they changed during transition)?
  • pinkpint@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    12·
    21 days ago

    Clit

    1. My clit is very sensitive, it can’t take much direct stimulation, oral and humping feel amazing but direct stimulation with fingers is usually too much.
    2. It peeks out a little when I’m turned on.
    3. Pretty small? Less than 1/2cm across.
    4. I love getting my clit licked and humping, fingers are best on either side of my clit.
    5. It gets firmer and more sensitive.
    6. My pussy definitely throbs when I orgasm but I haven’t noticed my clit throbbing.
    7. After I orgasm my clit does get a little more sensitive, but not much.
    8. I guess around the sides are less sensitive.
    9. Oh god no, that sounds like it would be awful.

    Orgasm

    1. I can feel it building up all around my pussy, like pressure, then it releases all at once, my pussy throbs and my body tenses. Oral and penetration are my favorite.
    2. They do feel different. Clitoral orgasms for me tend to be more intense and that pressure feeling is more all over, whereas g-spot orgasms the feeling is more localized.
    3. Not for me, I almost always have multiple orgasms.
    4. Each successive orgasm is less intense usually, but sometimes if there wasn’t a lot of build up the second will be more intense than the first.
    5. Not really, it doesn’t take much for me to get to the next orgasm, but there is a point where I get too sore to continue.
    6. I can stop myself right before I orgasm, but once it starts there’s no stopping.
    7. I think they were more intense when I was younger, but its hard to say.
    • ChexMax@lemmy.worldEnglish
      4·
      9 days ago

      I also have multiple orgasms, but they usually start very weak and then get more and more intense/long. Interesting to know it’s the opposite for some other women

        • ChexMax@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          5 days ago

          Not really, they mostly just get closer together until eventually it’s happening over and over in waves. But that’s only happened a few times. Sometimes I need a second to recover/finish the current one, like I’ll ask for just pressure, instead of movement, but that’s like a less than a minute recovery, not like a whole break. It’s just part of the rhythm

          • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
            2·
            5 days ago

            How do you decide when to stop and do you ever feel “post orgasm clarity” like a guy stereotypically does?

            • ChexMax@lemmy.worldEnglish
              3·
              3 days ago

              We stop when he’s finished or when he gets tired 🤷🏼‍♀️ when I’m alone I stop when I’m tired. I’m satisfied enough to stop after 2 or 3 when I’m alone, or 5 or 6 when I’m with him, so everything on top of that is gravy. Description what post orgasm clarity feels like to you and I’ll let you know if I ever feel it

              • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
                2·
                3 days ago

                It depends on the situation: either a warm, drowsy, nice feeling if everything is okay, or tired, disgusted, and regretful if something is not. Basically (as arousal inhibits disgust) an instant comedown from arousal and an instant clarity about what just happened (which can be good, neutral, or bad/icky feeling). Did that make sense at all?

                Edit: unrelated, what was the most number of orgasms you’ve had in one sitting?

    • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      19 days ago

      In general, step by step, what does arousal feel like to you? Also what does oral feel like to you, does it feel different from vibrator use or fingering (and if so, how)? Also, how does nipple stimulation feel like to you?