Out on the beach for a while today, i ran across two people waving for attention; turns out they were stuck right past the ‘4wd only past this point’ sign. I got them unstuck, made sure they didnt need anything else and was about to head on my way. One of the women offered me a couple road sodas, and i declined- i havent drank alcohol in about 13 years and have no inclination to start again. The other woman actually scoffed, and said ‘what man isnt going to accept a beer from a couple women on the beach, are you a f-slur?’
So i left.
Why the fuck do people who drink alcohol act this way around people who dont drink?
I haven’t gotten in a situation that awful, but being straight edge has led me to the whole, “not even a little bit?” conversation multiple times, and I fucking hate it.
If I say, “I do not consume alcohol or recreational drugs,” I mean that I do not consume alcohol or recreational drugs. Period. I added no caveats there.
I don’t know what part of that is equivocal.
I didn’t say “I don’t usually consume alcohol, but maybe on some occasions I will!” or “I limit my alcohol consumption very heavily.” I said “I do not.”
I think it has to do with people constantly projecting their own preferences in life onto other people. To me, “some people enjoy certain things differently than you” doesn’t seem like some elevated galaxy-brain take that’s incredibly difficult to grasp or understand, but interacting with many people in society has easily taught me that this isn’t the case for a whole lot of others.
I do consume thc, but only evenings or weekends. Because of this ive been called a hypocrite or worse, because i dont drink alcohol but consume thc. Frankly this is why the fat lot of my friends are either sxe or juat non drinkers.
That’s not hypocritical — there’s even a term “California sober” for this
not to be confused with ohio sober, which is only doing weed and booze