• HubertManne@piefed.social
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    3 days ago

    To be fair lgb and lgb+ was a lot easier. Its practically doubled over time. Is the Q even needed? I thought queer was a slur.

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        2 days ago

        gotta realize I have experience going back to the 70’s. I could be wrong but I swear it was lgb at one point.

        • hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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          “LGB” may very well have been used to refer to sexual and romantic minorities, but now it’s mostly used by transphobes who want to exlude trans people from their own community.

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      3 days ago

      I looked it up and the Q can stand for “queer” or “questioning”. I’ve always assumed it was the second for the exact reason you mentioned. It has been, at least in part, reclaimed, although it probably differs from group to group.

    • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 days ago

      2SLGBTQIANBP+ or LGBTQIANB2SP+

      • Two Spirit
      • Lesbian
      • Gay
      • Bisexual
      • Transgender
      • Queer/Questioning
      • Intersex
      • Asexual/Aromantic/Agender (never for allies)
      • Nonbinary
      • Pansexual/Polyamorous
      • Plus (for other identities)
      • rbn@sopuli.xyz
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        I guess it’s pretty discriminating that some orientations get more letters than others, one even is allowed to have a number and potentially many more have to share just one single +. Why not use only the + for everyone? ♥️

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          Personally think GSRM should be more popular. Its short and includes everyone, and isnt making a a hidden declaration that some minorities are more special by having their own letter (thus the reason for appending more to the alphabet soup)

          • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            2 days ago

            We believe it was coopted by pedophiles or they tried to claim it for themselves or join in with using it in some way, so sadly there’s a lot of baggage which comes with it and why any in the know don’t use it.

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        3 days ago

        No way in my fucking Life I’ll be able to remember all of that. I’ll need a cheat sheet.

        $ cat /dev/random

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    3 days ago

    White people have some really bad names. Only a white woman would name her kid khaleesi.

    Guy I know worked ers. Kid named Nosmo. The mother looked up, saw the no smoking sign, said that sounds good.

    As far as names go it’s better than the white ones lmao.

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      It’s fairly common for parents to name their children based on the day they were born, like naming them after the saint that day represents.

      I met a guy who’s name was the equivalent to “nat-hol” because he was born on the local national holiday and that’s what it showed on the calendar for that day.

      • threelonmusketeers@sh.itjust.works
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        I think this exact string was a plot point in Ramona and her father by Beverly Cleary. Ramona intended to create a “NO SMOKING” sign, but paper dimension limitations caused the sign to read “NOSMO KING”.

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          3 days ago

          https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramona_and_Her_Father

          It sounds like a pretty good book, with some real themes dealing with unemployment and the stress that has on the whole family.

          I did find this bit a little funny:

          Ramona grows concerned about her father’s smoking habit and works with Beezus to leave messages all over the house.

          who the hell is Beezus lmfao

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            who the hell is Beezus lmfao

            Beatrice “Beezus” Quimby is Ramona’s elder sister. IIRC, she got her nickname because Ramona had difficulty pronouncing “Beatrice” when she was little.