Hiya lemmy! I’m a escort/prostitute from Thailand. Ask me anything!

I’m 5’1 and am usually a sub. Very rarely a dom.

I’ll answer anything that won’t reveal who exactly I am.

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    What has made you so successful in this business? Are you particularly good looking? Do you fit a certain niche?

    What makes a great client?

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      I work a lot and do all the usual good practices with money. Plus I’m very lucky to start at a big and expensive organization. I also help them out in other areas (tech help, clean ups, shopping etc)

      I’m not amazing to look at but easily far above average. Plus a modest boob job helps.

      I don’t fill a certain niche but I’m willing to do a lot beyond just sex. For example any gf/wife experience with me includes managing the clients houses, dealing with repairs and really a lot of non sex stuff. I help with sexual and non sexual frustrations.

      A great client is a client that know what they want or is at least willing to talk and figure out what they want. The clearer they are the better it’ll be for us both.

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      1. Many many things but most easy to explain is the gang bang with my teachers (many years after they were my teachers). They even requested wearing the uniform.

      2. Gai tod

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      No change on either. I was fairly well exposed to the “real” world since a young age.

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    Are you working primarily in Thailand? And if so how is the general scene for sex workers there? Is it safe or no? I know in many countries there are a lot of challenges and even dangers for sex workers. But not sure how it is in Thailand.

    It sounds like you feel safe in your workplace but I’m curious how much you know about others in the industry.

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      I work international. I’d say half in thailand and half outside.

      I’m a bit disconnected from the real depths as I never have gone into the more “local” sex scene. I know just much as the public. The same dangers + worse government support.

      I’m very safe. I’m intentionally staying as far from the rest of the industry as I can. Don’t want to accidentally anger trafficers and gangs like them.

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      We get to choose our clients so that’s our shifts. Generally it is somewhere between 2 pm to 2am. (At least that’s the time we try to keep it to)

      We’re expected to work at least 7 days a month but most do a little over 14. I’m active around 20.

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    3 days ago

    When meeting a client for the first time, what are some things you look for in terms of trusting them to treat you alright? Have there ever been situations where you had to turn down a client for some reason? What do you do if you need help?

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      The organization does a fairly decent background check first. So usually its all good people. Communication is the main thing. If they dislike speaking then it’s a bad sign. (Before starting anything)

      I flatly deny anyone with a micropenis. I’m not sure how to work with them so I don’t want to accidentally hurt them, emotionally or physically. Otherwise I can deny anyone I have a bad feeling about. They’ll be told I’m booked or unwell or something along those lines.

      We have many guards and panic buttons hidden in a lot of places. If the client isn’t trustworthy then they can’t hire us to go anywhere, they’ll have to use our approved hotels and rooms.

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    3 days ago

    Do you have a preference?

    I knew a prostitute who preferred to sub but would dom if it came with some nice roleplay.

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    At what age did you start and how many years have you been in the business?

    How did you come across the organization?

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    What was your best experience at work?

    What was your most fun experience at work?

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      Nothing for sexual pleasure. I’m practically celibate outside work.

      I’m into handheld gaming and tennis. Tho tennis I usually can play only when I’m out with a few clients. I’m playing tears of the kingdom and xenoblade 2 now.

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        Oh right. I meant like natural, trim, shaved. 😉

        Do you have a preference? What about your colleagues? Is this something you talk about amongst yourselves?

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          Depends. A full shave is best for a BJ, any other hole natural or a decent length trim is best.

          We don’t really talk about this too much as it’s the same opinion for all of us.

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    Is this a long term career goal? If not, what is your long term career goal and how do you see this segue into that?

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      I’m fairly close to retirement. With how much I’ve earned I should be able to live without working as long as I maintain my wealth.

      I hold a bachelor’s degree in cybersecurity so if required I can always try my hand there.