My mother hates her brother, so I cant invite him to wedding. My brother and my mother see each other once a week cause of his baby but they dont speak with each other.

My stepfather was the coolest dad but was a functioning alcoholic my whole life and today it shows. I love him but oh my goodness he is in a horrible shape and strange attitude sometimes, totally unreliable.

My real dad never supported my mom but well I love him but still kind of weird. He is coming to my wedding, but he smokes so much weed he booked wrong ticket and wil miss the first 5 hours of my wedding.

My oncle that my mom hates I can agree. He is wack. A creep.

My brother and I see each other once a month but only cause I think I have to.

I cant wait til my wedding is over and I think I am done with them. Their Dramas are not my Business but drag me down and my life would be better withoit each of them besides my mom.

This was just a short summery and no indept reasons but a lot of it has reasons. I think my mother and brother dont talk cause of his wife. She is passive toxic like asks everyone what they like to drink but ignores my mother. If I was my mom Id hate her too and not speak to my brother. Problem is, they dont do that to me. So what now? My mom doesnt want me to talk to them etc

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    3 months ago

    I feel you. I had to cut off a toxic family too. My chosen family kicks ass though! They are some of the most wonderful people I’ve ever known~