• yemmly@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Maybe it’s the people who are judgmental and intolerant of how others communicate (or don’t) who are wrong?

  • RiverGhost@slrpnk.net
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    10 months ago

    So much self-monitoring is exhausting. Worse because I think I genuinely go overboard if I don’t monitor.

    I’m lucky that I’ve made friends where we literally send essays to each other and don’t even have any expectations of a time limit for answering. I probably achieved this by “being annoying” and the friends (who also happen to be autistic for the most part), self-selected.

    • Dyskolos@lemmy.zip
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      10 months ago

      This is the way! Stopping the fight to fit in, but changing the social circle until it fits you 😊

  • SavvyWolf@pawb.social
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    10 months ago

    It’s a bit annoying seeing people in nearly dead Lemmy communities who are like “oohh, sorry for flooding the community”…

    Anyway, I really feel this meme. Been going through tough things recently and it’s been hard figuring out how much I should burden my online friends with it…