• Passerby6497@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Depends on your standards of ‘attractiveness’ and that of the people you associate with. I don’t consider myself that attractive, but I’ve had multiple women make the first move on me after treating them like normal people and getting to know them as friends. That sort of behavior has its benefits :)

    But I might be a special case, in that my proclivities mean I hang out in circles where women know they can feel safe to make moves without dudes being dudebros or have any expectation of ‘the implication’ being in play.