This comparison is stupid, there’s a big difference between someone AMAB explicitly identifying as a woman, and a cissie who wants to be a woman but not stop being a man because “being trans is so hip and cool rn” bigender has more in common with those stupid neogenders where people call themselves dollself, demonself, dragonself, and some other bullshit made up pronouns that aren’t real words, nor real genders.
They are NOT real trans people, they are posers who want attention and special treatment without realizing how difficult and painful it is to really actually be trans. They are disgusting pigs and should be named and shamed for what they do.
I understand that you feel this way, but do you have a single shred of evidence for your claims? From my perspective, you are indistinguishable from a transphobic bigot – right down to the slurs.
But I get where you’re coming from. You’ve suffered a lot to get where you are, and then you see these other people who don’t suffer the way you did and do, who are claiming those labels you fought so hard for.
Hurt people hurt people. You’re lashing out, saying the same thing about others that others say about you.
You don’t understand their experiences, therefore their experiences aren’t real. They’re invading trans spaces: they don’t understand that being trans is supposed to be painful and hard, not like you (a real trans person) do.
But s/trans/female/, and that sounds just like TERF rhetoric.
You think it’s so easy? Those people you’re mocking and trying to exclude from trans spaces aren’t exactly immune from such treatment in cis spaces. Attitudes like yours, though in the minority, are common enough to make many trans spaces unwelcoming, or even unsafe.
So where should they go?
You say they don’t realise “how difficult and painful it is to really actually be trans”, but that’s exactly the same as saying *you* don’t realise that about womanhood.
This comparison is stupid, there’s a big difference between someone AMAB explicitly identifying as a woman, and a cissie who wants to be a woman but not stop being a man because “being trans is so hip and cool rn” bigender has more in common with those stupid neogenders where people call themselves dollself, demonself, dragonself, and some other bullshit made up pronouns that aren’t real words, nor real genders.
They are NOT real trans people, they are posers who want attention and special treatment without realizing how difficult and painful it is to really actually be trans. They are disgusting pigs and should be named and shamed for what they do.
I understand that you feel this way, but do you have a single shred of evidence for your claims? From my perspective, you are indistinguishable from a transphobic bigot – right down to the slurs.
But I get where you’re coming from. You’ve suffered a lot to get where you are, and then you see these other people who don’t suffer the way you did and do, who are claiming those labels you fought so hard for.
But since when is being trans about suffering?
Hurt people hurt people. You’re lashing out, saying the same thing about others that others say about you.
You don’t understand their experiences, therefore their experiences aren’t real. They’re invading trans spaces: they don’t understand that being trans is supposed to be painful and hard, not like you (a real trans person) do.
But s/trans/female/, and that sounds just like TERF rhetoric.
You think it’s so easy? Those people you’re mocking and trying to exclude from trans spaces aren’t exactly immune from such treatment in cis spaces. Attitudes like yours, though in the minority, are common enough to make many trans spaces unwelcoming, or even unsafe.
So where should they go?
You say they don’t realise “how difficult and painful it is to really actually be trans”, but that’s exactly the same as saying *you* don’t realise that about womanhood.
End the cycle. Please.