i was straight for a long time until i dated a masc-presenting enby (masc + neutral terms) and realized i was ok with having boyfriends and dating guys and masc people. now i don’t even know if i like girls so i’ve come full circle or whatever…

  • wit@lemmy.worldMEnglish
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    17 hours ago

    I liked watching wrestling just to see all the muscular guys… Also, in school, I crushed on a few guys.

    Though when imagining a family, I always pictured myself with a girl. Seeing myself with a guy was just… weird and a little bit uncomfortable. I think that was internalized homophobia. When I imagine a “family” now, I definitely see myself with a boyfriend and not a girlfriend. In fact, I find the opposite now, picturing myself with a girl gives me the “yikes, disgusting”.

  • yoshisaur@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    had a sleepover with my best friend when we were 13. I always thought he was good looking. once I saw him change, I thought he looked kinda cute. right before we went to bed, we were roughhousing and he got on top of me. that’s when it really clicked to me

  • con_fig@programming.dev
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    3 days ago

    Start of college, I kinda just realised that I like men too. Then that grew to I guess I like everything so now I’m pan.

  • lazyneet@programming.dev
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    3 days ago

    I had a strong feeling of being bisexual in high school. Was totally open about it but nobody listened because I was a virgin.