• VirtualOdour@sh.itjust.works
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    3 months ago

    Just remember if a doctor ever asks then lie and say only on friday, there’s a few things in life you absolutely have to lie about because the system is not designed to care about people.

    Here in the uk never admit to smoking weed to a medical professional, never admit to even so much as thinking about any form of self harm, delusions, emotional regulation issues… it can come back decades later and fuck you over.

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 months ago

      This is generally pretty bad advice.

      I mean I get where you’re coming from, and I cannot speak to what it is like in the UK (I can only speak as a man in the US), but you should not lie to your doctor.

      If you see a doctor, and they start treating you differently after finding out that you smoke weed, then you find another doctor.

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        3 months ago

        Unless you’re in Canada and there’s a doctor shortage and you can’t just shop around for a different family doctor if you don’t like your current one. If you’re lucky enough to even have a doctor here…

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          3 months ago

          So I’m assuming you’re in Canada and don’t have experience with US healthcare… But we have the same issues here. Unless you’re extremely wealthy, you are very limited as to what doctor you can or can’t see based on your insurance plan which is almost always based on your employment.

          There are wait times and you cannot “shop around” for a GP in the way you’re implying.

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      3 months ago

      Wait what happens if you admit to smoking weed? I thought we had doctor patient confidentiality. I’ve had some mental issues in the past, though not to the point of self harm. What happens if I admit these? I also live in the UK and this is concerning.