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Cake day: November 1st, 2023

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  • Think of it as % of being gay.

    Maybe you notice a guy be good at something, o r notice he has big muscles. You’re now 10% gay. Just make few other examples like it, you just think you’re being friendly And simply like being around them.

    This takes time to piece together and being open about your sexuality being a spectrum rather than binary is a tough mental barrier because your entire life you were told to like X.

    Admitting that the other gender has a nice ass takes time. And it is not 100% sexually driven. This applies to both men and female, but everyone is different. I’m just trying to give you some backstory to your women in 20s question as a possible scenario out of many.












  • Wasn’t anywhere close to ever being in such a situation. But roleplay and fantasies are fun during sex, a bit of dirty talk, teasing and talking about fetish spice things up in bed.

    Sexuality is really irrelevant, as long as you’re faithful to your spouse, the ins and outs of who you find attractive simply don’t matter. If your partner is fine with you doing a 3some, doing something to the same gender side doesn’t invalidate you as a person. If you want to call yourself bi/pan or continue to label yourself as straight, it’s up to you and no one else. The sooner you realise it, the better the chance of a successful partnership and sex life.

    I feel like it needs to be said so it might help someone.