People can be trusted to make their own decisions in life

:P It’s a little of both - I’ve cooled off a lot now in my late 30s, but I had a very hard time as a child and into my teenage years. It’s the events from back then, and the choices I made during that time that I carry a lot of shame about.

I don’t know of any resources, and it’s definitely something I feel like I can’t talk about. You aren’t alone!