I mean, that’s kind of been the case for like all of recorded history
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Many people don’t want to date someone destitute or with poor financial prospects. That’s just going to be hardship, and there are many other people that are probably just as good a fit without that problem.
Similarly, someone who makes way more money than you can add tension. They might be like “oh let’s go out for dinner!” to someplace expensive, and you don’t have the budget for it. Are they going to pay for it? Are they going to resent that? Are they going to pressure you into paying? Their expectations and standards may not align.
Also, if the relationship is going to be long term most people assume there will be some merging of finances.
Some jobs are also just gross. I wouldn’t date someone who worked at Facebook. I wouldn’t date someone who worked for Fox News. Your job 100% can reflect your values and personality.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto politics @lemmy.world•More than 70% of Black voters disapprove of Trump - erasing 2024 gains8·2 days agoAmericans are just stupid, and it’s easy to whip us into a moral panic.
I’m having a thought. It’s easy to write them off as stupid, and they may be, but there’s also like… If they have really bad information, the decisions they make given that info as true make more sense. If you really believed that Harris was eating babies, or “she’s a communist that’s going to put the christians in a labor camp”, it would make sense to vote for the “lesser” evil.
Just need to figure out why they believe such falsehoods. it’s probably fox news et al.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto Flippanarchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Capitalist corruption is inescapable7·2 days agoStep 1: Acknowledge the problem.
Just getting the bulk of people to acknowledge, out loud, that the current capitalist structures are creating many unacceptably bad outcomes would be a start. People often leap to “well anarchy is bad too!” without spending enough time on how big the current state is.
Related:
"ai will make you twice as productive!’
“Cool. So I’ll be paid twice as much, or work half the hours?”
“Lol no. I’m keeping the profits”
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto Technology@beehaw.org•I’m not ignoring your message – I’m overwhelmed by the tyranny of being reachable1·2 days agoYes, I am very aggressive about turning off notifications. The use case I had in mind is texts from friends, and I don’t want to turn those off. Like someone texts me something that requires thought or online connectivity, but I’m on the subway or at a concert. I want to snooze the message so it’ll remind me in a couple hours.
Sometimes for really important stuff I’ll set a timer myself, but that’s more steps than if the OS just had a “remind me later” built in.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto rpg@ttrpg.network•Daggerheart: I expected another Dungeons and Dragons, but found something much, much better3·2 days agoNot the person you asked but I’m taking this opportunity to talk about why I wouldn’t play pbta as my main game.
One, I rarely feel like my character is competent. I’m usually rolling mixed success, and that feels bad. A good GM can take the edge off there. they can make it so the problem was circumstances or the strength of your enemy, instead of your fuck up. But most GMs aren’t good, they’re average.
Related, and I think this might have been a result of not liking the GM, when I do get a mixed success it often feels like the GM is just fucking with me. It felt very unilateral. They decide what happens with no buy-in from the table needed. When I run Fate, mixed successes are a proposal the player can accept, decline, or suggest another idea.
Third, playbooks feel like mad libs instead of writing. So much is already defined, typically, it’s constraining and anchoring. I don’t feel like I’m really making something of my own. I can see how that’s really helpful for some people but I don’t enjoy it. I much prefer the utterly freeform mode of Fate. I want to be a chaos magick using librarian? I can just write that down.
I had fun doing a one shot of rapscallions a couple weeks ago, but I wouldn’t make it my main game.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto News@lemmy.world•It hasn’t been this hard for Americans to find work since 20216·2 days agoMostly backend for web development (django most recently), though I’m moderately proficient at react and JavaScript for frontend. Also testing and QA.
I’ve been applying to all of full stack, backend web dev, and test/QA. No bites. Learning more languages might help, but I feel like having 0 years experience in (say) Rust won’t get a lot of traction.
Maybe it’s imposter syndrome but I feel like I’ve always been a sort of middle of the road engineer. Good at some things , bad at others. It feels like with all the layoffs and AI, there’s less room for broadly competent people. There’s just going to be the top tier, fighting and getting paid less.
Wow those replies are terrible. I regret clicking.
If you own the company (or a lot of shares), you gain wealth by doing literally nothing if the company’s value increases. On top of probably just keeping the profits. Plus the “use my stock as collateral, give me a low interest personal loan, that’s not taxed as income lol” wealth back.
I’m not talking so much about the petit bourgeoisie that’s working hard every day making donuts to sell. I’m talking about big C Capital that buys something and just takes the profits.
The CEO at my old job can’t code. He can’t do UI design. He doesn’t do sales or customer service. He sometimes talks to other rich assholes to fundraise, but mostly he makes questionable decisions and hurts morale. But if the company goes big, he’ll get filthy rich and the people who actually built the thing will not.
That said, higher taxes on the wealthy (plus closing loopholes like the loan thing) would help. So would universal basic income.
It’s funny because conservatives cry about “welfare queens” that just take money for nothing, but it’s the rich who can do that. If you have a few million, you can just coast on investments. Little to no risk. Once again, projection.
You could also have salaries 🤷
The problem to solve is a handful of people who aren’t really doing much work get most of the profits. There may be other solutions.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto News@lemmy.world•It hasn’t been this hard for Americans to find work since 202141·2 days agoso what will be the point of failure
It feels like a lot of the maga hats will die cheering and waving trump flags. I don’t know if that’s historically precedented.
It’s going to be hard to make any fixes when like 30-50% of the country wants hell on earth.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto News@lemmy.world•It hasn’t been this hard for Americans to find work since 202124·2 days agoJob market is brutal, at least for tech. Every job gets 100s of applicants. There’s a lot of AI slop. Offered salaries are down. For some reason, management wants people to go into the office (which is among other problems a pay cut compared to WFH).
I’ve been unemployed since the winter. Had a handful of phone screens. Haven’t made it to a technical round yet.
My old job laid off all but one guy and a contractor.
Honestly, I kind of want to get out of tech but I don’t know what I can do that doesn’t require like a degree or is terrible.
Unemployment runs out soon. Not that the pittance the state gives is enough to live on. I asked what I should do when it runs out and they were like, awkward shrug.
Meanwhile there are billionaires living content lives of luxury.
How would you quantify ongoing projects where workers come and go and each of their specific contribution might not be easy to measure?
Probably some sort of collective ownership, profit sharing, with negotiation and consensus building. Other people more well read than me have spent a lot of time thinking about this. My starting position is that the standard capitalist model of “I pay you $10 to make a widget, and I sell it for $1000 and keep all the profits” is not okay.
Do they all also assume financial responsibility for any failures or lawsuits?
Do the owners assume financial responsibility now? I think that’s what LLCs and other corporate structures are for- to shield individuals from liability and responsibility.
Taking things too seriously, don’t most plants benefit from their fruit being eaten as part of their lifecycle?
but they should be run by the government and get their own parking infrastructure.
Well, yeah, but some soulless husks want to profit. Personally I think we should hold some “disruption” conferences on a remote island, and then “forget” to pick them all up afterwards.
Also it’s not like the workers typically get the long tail of profits. Most labor is only paid a salary, and the “owners” get to keep profiting. Workers should be entitled to the profits of their labor.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto Fediverse vs Disinformation@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Why is The New York Times so afraid of Zohran Mamdani?12·3 days agoMaybe. The natural reflex is to point out the horrors of capitalism, but people are more okay with that.
jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkto Technology@beehaw.org•I’m not ignoring your message – I’m overwhelmed by the tyranny of being reachable3·3 days agoI found a setting that alleged to enable snoozing, but it doesn’t seem to work. This is an older android phone though.
Running games has definitely helped me run meetings.