I occasionally post some OC on here. I do it for fun and because I’m a bit of an exhibitionist. I’m in my late 20s and have a long term boyfriend. I’m a little bored today so feel free to AMA!
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Thanks for sharing your pictures. How do you like them to be received? What sort of comments do you like?
@Evie what’s the biggest motivation for you to show yourself off to strangers? What is it that your bf most loves about it, the same thing, or something else?
It’s just exciting knowing that people are seeing my body. My bf likes that other people get turned on by me.
What motivates you to get out the camera? I’m trying to convince my wife to take and send more pictures to me but she thinks she has to be all done up before taking any pictures. Sometimes the process for her can take hours so usually at that point patience turns into hornyness and we tend to both like being in the moment rather than experiencing life through a phone screen.
It really just excites me to take pictures and send them to him. I definitely don’t spend much time dolling up, and my bf doesn’t ask me to either, so that helps. I usually just pick a piece of lingerie quick, do a quick flash, strip down, or do a bit of a tease and then not much more than that. For posting, my bf is really turned on by showing me off so it’s exciting for both of us. I don’t know if I can give much more advice since I think it’s going to vary from person to person, but I’d say try to encourage her to do more candid stuff or light teases at first so she doesn’t feel like she needs to doll up so much. Basically have her do more “low effort” stuff and then see how it goes from there.
What’s your favorite book and/or movie and why?
My favorite book is probably The House on Mango Street.
My favorite movie is a toss up between Singin in the Rain, Kiki’s Delivery Service, or Spirited Away.
Honestly I couldn’t give you a great reason why they’re my favorites.
What motivates you to post here instead of a bigger platform with more users?
I tried Reddit for a bit but it got so annoying having to do a new verification every time you want to post to a new sub, and half the time the mods never even respond, and a decent chunk of the ones that did respond were assholes. I also had to deal with getting banned and appealing over annoying stuff (both from Reddit and subs)
It’s not like I do it for money so all that hassle didn’t feel worth it and I don’t need to “optimize” my engagement, so I decided to look around for a more chill option and found Lemmy.
Tea or Coffee?
I had been a tea person for a long long time. My bf is a coffee fiend though and has an espresso machine, so over time he’s rubbed off on me and I’ve turned into more of a coffee person.
What’s your favorite cuisine, and favorite item/meal from that cuisine?
Indian cuisine is my favorite. My favorite dish is probably Saag with either paneer or chicken.
Is this your first foray into exhibitionism and would it be something you would monetize? If no, why not? I was long ago a “love for the game” type with my younger self, but there’s bills, ya know?
I’ve done some exhibitionist related stuff other than posting online. We go to nude beaches sometimes, I do some flashing when we go on hikes or rarely sometimes even in public, I wear skimpy bikinis (thongs/really cheeky bottoms, slightly sheer stuff) sometimes when we go swimming, and I dress pretty sexy when we go out to the bar (short skirts, short tight dresses, short shorts, etc)
We’ve considered monetizing before but we generally don’t think it’d be fun to have the pressure of consistently putting content out. It might still be something we explore in the future, but we both have steady, good incomes so we don’t feel the financial pressure that some others might. So we’d probably only do it if we decide we can keep it fun.
Would your boyfriend ever join you for couples posts? I’d really like to see you having sex 😋
Yeah, he would, I think I just need to encourage him to. He’s more excited about showing me off than being in the posts himself, but I think it’d be a lot of fun.
I get you! For me, there’s no better way to show off your gf than showing how she fucks 😇
Still, I love your posts!
How do we, as humans, overcome the crushing weight of existential dread?
Well I hope you’re a bit more entertained!
As far as questions, do you think your bf is going to get in on the shots at some point?
I will continue to enjoy your posts as always!
I think he’ll probably get in on the shots at some point. He’s more excited by showing me off rather than himself, so it’ll take some effort on my part to encourage him I think, but it’d be fun to start including him eventually. Thanks 😘
Well the good part is, he’s still showing you off! We’d just get more to enjoy 😈
What do arousal and orgasm feel like to you?
What was it like the first time you ever tried a bit of exhibitionism?
It was really fun! My bf dared me to take my top off during a hike and it was a little exciting thinking that someone might see.
What’s something you want to do but still haven’t done? could something sexual or not sexual.
Fave sexual fantasy?I want to visit Japan.
My favorite sexual fantasy is being tied down and blindfolded and being used by multiple guys in a row.
