It really just excites me to take pictures and send them to him. I definitely don’t spend much time dolling up, and my bf doesn’t ask me to either, so that helps. I usually just pick a piece of lingerie quick, do a quick flash, strip down, or do a bit of a tease and then not much more than that. For posting, my bf is really turned on by showing me off so it’s exciting for both of us. I don’t know if I can give much more advice since I think it’s going to vary from person to person, but I’d say try to encourage her to do more candid stuff or light teases at first so she doesn’t feel like she needs to doll up so much. Basically have her do more “low effort” stuff and then see how it goes from there.