• SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    You say that, but there is a historical basis to making a point out of it

    For example, martial rape wasn’t considered rape or even sexual assault for a long time. And many people might also take someone not saying no as implicit consent, which is not necessarily the case

    It can be a bit more nuanced than it may initially seem, in the sense that like, there can be different understandings of consent

    Buuuut of course I don’t know the context of your conversation

      • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        6 days ago

        Great good faith response to my comment, for sure

        I think you underestimate how many people might not have a complete understanding of consent, and just dismissing it outright like this isn’t… as productive as you might think it is

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        5 days ago

        Other guy: rape is bad

        This guy: many people don’t really understand what rape is

        You: ah yes these are the same

      • JackbyDev@programming.dev
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        5 days ago

        You said people shouldn’t rape people who are likely to kill their rapist, and someone replied that people shouldn’t rape anyone period and they even said they weren’t trying to be pedantic. I think you’re looking too far into this. They weren’t necessarily scolding you. Could’ve just been a joke. Same thing here. Someone is just politely replying and discussing. They’re not attacking you.

        • Doubletake2121@lemmy.world
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          5 days ago

          I just don’t care. If you read the whole thing, somebody said, “Does anything in the title relate to the crime?” or something to the gist. I said, “No.” summed up the high points, and then said, “Unless it’s related to, ‘Don’t rape someone ex military or sometimes they’ll blow your brains out.’”

          It wasn’t necessary to provide a lecture about what rape is. It wasn’t relevant. This website is so full of pedantic dickheads, I’m frankly amazed reddit has any left.