The reason why I’m asking this question is to get an opinion from people that are are actually into to cuckolding

because I think me allowing my wife to have sex with women while I sit in a corner and watch as my wife and her Cuckcake humiliate me by calling me a pathetic loser and a pervert for watching and jerking off to them having sex together does make me a cuckold. It just makes me a pervert. Because I will never allow my wife to have sex with other men because I’m not into that all.

But what do you guys think am I cuckold or am I just a pervert?

    • TrenGoblin@lemmy.caOP
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      2 months ago

      Do you mean that literally or are you just saying that to make fun of me?

      Because on YouTube and on the internet the word cuck has no meaning because people will call other men cucks for being in an open marriage with his wife or for just watching straight porn. Which is completely ridiculous in my opinion.

      • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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        2 months ago

        It doesn’t matter that it’s with a woman. You are, by definition, a cuckold in this scenario.

        Edit: Stop being so concerned with definitions and what internet trolls think. Just have a good time with your wife in whatever way that manifests and stop worrying.

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          I guess you’re right I shouldn’t care at all what internet trolls think about how me and my wife choose to live our relationship. I should just enjoy being a Cuckold for my wife because her happiness is all that matters to me

  • commanderbalok@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    If you’re worried about the definition and want to be a cuck, have your wife fuck other men and then you’ll know for sure.

    • TrenGoblin@lemmy.caOP
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      I’m not comfortable with my wife sleeping with other men to be honest and neither is my wife because she told me that I’m the only man that she’s wants to sleep. That’s why I have no problem at all with her cucking me with the women that she sleeps with because I know she will always comeback home to me.

        • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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          Best part of any sort of swinging is the 1 on 1 with your own love afterwards. I think that’s something who never tried don’t understand. It concentrates your pleasure together way more than it dilutes it.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    My husband loved to watch me with other guys, but wasn’t into humiliation (except from the other side, he did bull for some couples).

    I think it’s the humiliation that makes it cuckolding kink, not whether it’s same sex/opposite sex. So yeah if you like them making fun of you for getting each other off better than you could, it’s cuckolding.

    Without the humiliation, just voyeurism I would say. Same as if she liked seeing you get railed by some guy and enjoying it, but not feeling anything except happy about it.

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      “I think it’s the humiliation that makes it cuckolding kink, not whether it’s same sex/opposite sex. So yeah if you like them making fun of you for getting each other off better than you could, it’s cuckolding”

      Well then I guess I will be the best cuckold husband for my wife because her happiness is the most important thing to me.

  • K.K.@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    If you don’t mind me asking, can you share some examples of the types of things they say to you? Or perhaps what they’ve said that you find hottest?

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      Some of the hottest things my wife has told me was that I’m no longer allowed to put my dick inside her vagina anymore because her Cuckcake fucks her better than I ever have and that all my money will be going towards her and her Cuckcake and ordering me to suck her Cuckcake strap on when it’s coated in her juices

      And some of the hottest things her Cuckcake has told me was that I’m a pathetic loser and a pervert for watching them have sex together and ordering me to eat her ass while she’s fucking my wife and telling me she’ll keep me locked in chastity forever so that I can never jerking off to them having sex together ever again.

      • K.K.@lemmynsfw.com
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        Well, damn. Apart from the findom-y stuff that might have awakened something in me… Thank you for taking the time to write it!!

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    The nature of a relationship is not defined by the gender of the people involved.

    If you’d called it cuckolding if it was with a guy, it’s cuckolding.

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    You should leave the room crying, then come back in with a mustache and punish them for humiliating your twin brother

    • TrenGoblin@lemmy.caOP
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      I’m not comfortable with humiliating my wife to be honest. But I love when my wife humiliates me.

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    I don’t think labels are terribly important for anything other than making communication easier. That said, watching and being humiliated definitely feels like what most would call cuckoldry. But by other definitions, you might not be called a cuckold because you’re actively engaged in a sexual activity (regardless of context). Sometimes people use the term to just mean not being involved at all, like if your wife was cheating on you.

    It doesn’t really matter what you call yourself here. It’s not like if what you are doing is technically cuckoldry if that suddenly means it is wrong. As long as everyone is consenting and enjoying themselves it doesn’t matter.

    All that said, I think most people would call this cuckoldry lol.

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      My wife also thinks that this makes me her cuckold husband. Which I don’t mind at all because I know that my wife really enjoys sleeping with women and she also still enjoys me being her husband.