• Tanis Nikana@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 month ago

      Also you want a quest? Here’s a quest:

      DRINK WATER

      Reward: one body happiness.

      Do this before the other person who has the quest does it.

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      Nah, I’m more into modern Final Fantasy, less so D&D and such.

      I’m gonna be wearing this outfit, sprinting flat-out up the side of a skyscraper, holding some badass technosword, on my way to kill god, who’s looming over the city, amidst night time, rain, and city-wide panic.

      It’s absolutely a vibe.

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    Oh it’s you! I remember your name from reddit. Used to spend some time on the femboy subreddit. Cool style you got there.

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    Yup I agree with glasses comment, I dig them!

    Being cis I can’t say I am bothered in the slightest, but sorry most people make you feel that way. Terrible that is the culture we have currently.

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    I love your look! Is that purple(?) thing like basically sleeves with a hoodie you pop over things? Whatever it is, it’s fab and I want one.

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        Just drank sodastreamed water. My body feels good, thank you!

        (how many xp? what next quest?)

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                Will try, thank you!

                Have a beautys sleep this night too!

                (I don’t know why your posts appear with two insta-downvotes?? I can only up it once 😔)

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                  Those are my downvotes; seems a bit presumptuous for me to auto-grant my own approval to a post. I have Lemmy set this way.

                  (Everyone’s got their own opinion about votes and how to use them, and that’s alright.)

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    Looking great! Genuine cis question, when I come across fabulous looking trans people, I get really conflicted, I want to look and admire and wonder and praise, but I’m nervous that they’d really just like to blend in and not be ogled. I guess I often end up “staunchly not looking”. What’d you prefer if it was you?

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      It’s pretty nuanced, I think. I pass well enough (or not really, I don’t care anymore) and just want to be left alone. I’m sure the compliments come from a place of support, but it just feels like being lied to.

      I’m probably an outlier. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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      not op, but personally im never opposed so somebody complimenting me as long as it comes across as a genuine compliment (ex: i like your style/outfit/vibe) and not somebody just trying to hit on me or something.

      (edit: lol actually i love to be hit on im a slut but shhhhhh)

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      I mean, I’m not out here wearing a t-shirt and jeans for compliments; I’m out here looking like a Final Fantasy protagonist cause it makes me feel good. Also cause I want other queer people to notice too.

      That said, my wardrobe goes from naked, through one single pair of pajamas, to a vast and fantastic wardrobe of no pants whatsoever and insane outfits.

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      Before I was on hormones and maybe in the first 6 - 8 months on HRT, I had so many usually cis, white, liberal women (one time a cis white liberal dude) come up to me and compliment my dress / skirt / whatever. I take it as a sign I’m passing more that nobody does that anymore, lol.

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      I think it’s important how it comes across, like when you’re complimenting cis people. So, context and what it is that you’re complimenting is what I would pay attention to.

      That being said, I love getting compliments haha.

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    Questioning my cisosity because you have a look so endlessly fascinating i could stare all day

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    I’m cis, and I hate any type of attention, so I’m with you!

    Plus, you look great!

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    “Passing” is becomming increasingly irrelevant as even cis folk are increasingly ignoring gender norms. Just try to look how you want to look and fuck what other people think.

    Also are those the newest gen aftershokz? If so how do you like them? I really need to get myself a new pair and I’ve been looking at those.

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      THEY HAVE ACTUAL FUKKEN BASS YO

      I forgot how some of my music used to sound like with my old V-Modas (which I stopped wearing outside cause they’re too heavy, isolating, and they detract from my aesthetic.)

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        Ok, you’ve sold me. I’m getting a pair. Thank you.

        I currently have the old gen 1s and my biggest complaint has been that there’s no bass basically at all. That and the buttons have finally quit working after 3 years of near daily use.

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    Joke’s on you, I try staunchly and vehemently not to look at cis people too.

    PS: Amazing drip