• FuglyDuck@lemmy.world
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    And this is why you don’t tell your boss why you need the day off, beyond “I’m visiting the doctor.”

    They have no need to know.

    Also, it could open you to discrimination- sure they might blame other things…. Suddenly egregious mistakes like stapling the reports along the horizontal edge instead of the vertical, or drinking too much coffee, all the impossible to defend “we have complaints you’re being creepy”.

    They don’t need to know the procedures, they don’t even need the doctor’s name.

    They only need to know you won’t be coming in that day and that it’s for medical care.

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      This was my knee jerk reaction too but this is about legal protections for those specific things so you would need to disclose the nature of your time off to be protected … but the fact the church is exempt is insane because who the fuck else would you need this kind of protection from?

      Of course if you can do it using other methods that is always ideal, give them as little info as possible at all times.

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        Anything beyond “medical” is none of their fucking business and that’s being generous.

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          100% agree but for the law to mean anything it needs to be in addition to basic medical protections … if America even has those, which … you know …

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        Yeah, so “Catholic Employer” =/= “Catholic Church” or any other church-oriented religious organization.

        They’re talking about secular employers who happen to be Catholic. Said another way, it’s a secular company owned by someone who happens to be catholic.

        It’s like the asshole-bakeries that want to not make cakes for gay couples. Same argument.

        What’s fucked up is that means an employer can shit on an employee’s religious beliefs (or lack of them,) without consequence.

        AGAIN: you would never know they were catholic until it became an issue, because the company itself is otherwise secular, not religious.

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          We need to stop tying healthcare to our jobs. We need universal healthcare to make it easy for people to just go from job to job.

          One of the main reasons I stay at my job is because they cover my Botox for migraines

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      This is the way. Religious or not, do share any details that HR can weaponize.

      My wife had a bad burrito and I had to clean up and care for her. Told them, “My family is going through a serious incident.” That’s it. I don’t need to give details.

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      Correct, they can fire you for not telling them but then that’s an easy unemployment claim if not lawsuit for violating healthcare confidentiality.

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      This is the correct answer. Unless it’s COVID, I don’t believe they can even ask once they know it’s medical.

      HIPAA

      The issue is people who flip out internally and feel the need to explain themselves. Those are your feelings, not an actual rule. Stop it.

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        HIPAA covers what information health care professionals can provide. It does not cover what your boss or anyone else can ask you. Some states have their own laws. In California, for example, you would be correct, but that is a state law, not HIPAA.

        Requests from your employer

        Your employer can ask you for a doctor’s note or other health information if they need the information for sick leave, workers’ compensation, wellness programs, or health insurance.

        However, if your employer asks your health care provider directly for information about you, your provider cannot give your employer the information without your authorization unless other laws require them to do so.

        Generally, the Privacy Rule applies to the disclosures made by your health care provider, not the questions your employer may ask.

        What your employer can do if you refuse to answer or lie to them, I have no idea.

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        It’s ADA, not HIPAA

        Basically, you don’t have to tell them, and they can only ask (or demand medical evaluation) so far as it’s a concern for doing your job- or for providing reasonable accommodation.

        And no, we can’t fire you for taking a day off or calling in for a medical anything. Nor can we fire you for saying more than that.

        What we can do, is keep track of every petty little thing you fuck up and fire you for stupid shit. Like you forgot to tuck your shirt in or you arrived five minutes late or whatever.

        It’s dirty and it’s wrong, but it’s impossible to prove that narrative that your illness or what ever made you relapse and hurt performance.

        Everyone knows it’s because you took FMLA leave, but, on paper it’s because you started showing up late again. Or whatever.

        It’s depressing that the only union this doesn’t work on is cops.