• GraniteM@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    As a member of the Oregon Trail generation, I can report that a couple of years ago I made a list of all the things that I was expected to not do when I was a cishet little boy and was afraid of being labeled “queer.” The list of forbidden activities included, but was not limited to…

    • Singing
    • Dancing
    • Reading
    • Wearing bright colors
    • Taking too much care of my appearance
    • Hanging out with girls
    • Expressing emotions other than anger
    • Being in plays
    • Avoiding violence

    As an adult I’d describe myself as… like a one or two on the Kinsey scale, but honestly much happier now that I’ve recognized that heteronormativity is a horrible fucking prison. Wearing bright colors is fun, I love who and what I love, David Bowie is attractive, and I’m no longer pretending otherwise.

  • nifty@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    Why are there so many gay people all of a sudden!?! Mfer, this is literally the only point in time that the internet and some socially progressive societies have existed together in time.

  • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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    22 days ago

    Kids these days don’t know how new acceptance of LGBTQ individuals is. It’s really shocking how quickly a majority of cishet folks shifted to supporting the LGBTQ community. In the 2000s cartoons would still go 'Omg I might catch the gay!" And yet now kids encourage eachother to experiment and explore and find out who they really are. Heck now I have my own questions about myself given my awareness of the options that are available